That feeling of being face-to-face with your significant other’s family for the first time—what to bring? How to act? You’re probably feeling all the feels. Our resident dating expert is back to make sure you’re all set.
BY: LINDSEY METSELAAR
Spotlight fam, I’ve missed you! There is truly nothing better than a spring spent in Palm Beach. This is such a family town, and of course, that got me thinking: What better to discuss than meeting someone’s family for the first time? It can be nerve-racking, but with these tips I can guarantee that you’ll make an amazing impression.
1. Bring a Gift.
If you’re going over to their parent’s home for the first time, or if you’re joining them for vacation, it’s always a good look to bring a gift. It’s important to not bring just any gift. Ask your significant other to tell you a little bit about what their parents are into.
Are they winos, whiskey people, dessert fans? This will determine what type of gift you go with. If all else fails, flowers are always a good idea!
2. Don’t Be Shy.
Of course you’re nervous. This is a big deal. However, it’s important to try to not let your nerves get the best of you and keep you quiet. Their parents want to see and get to know your personality! In this case, saying too much is better than saying nothing at all.
3. Be Interested in Getting to Know Them.
Our parents want to be seen and to be included. When a new person comes into your life, parents might feel like they’re losing their child. If you, as their significant other and a new addition to the group, are actually interested in getting to know your partner’s parents, it can make them feel relevant nand needed once again.
Ask them questions about what your other half was like growing up, and even questions about their own childhood.
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4. Help Out.
If you’re staying with your significant other’s parents in their home, it’s crucial to be helpful around the house. Make the bed, offer to help with the dishes, and don’t get too comfortable too quickly. This will go a long way with their parents, and it will show them that you were raised well.
5. Hold Off On the PDA.
Public displays of affection in moderation are okay, unless you’re around their parents for the first time. Their folks aren’t dumb. They know you’re loving each other in physical ways.
However, it’s not wise to be all over each other when your focus is making a good impression. You can save the PDA for later on, and instead focus on tips 1–4.
If you’re meeting their family, don’t worry, you got this. With the right person, it won’t seem so daunting. Family time can be tough, but if you listen to my advice, you’ll be off to a great start. For more, you can follow
@wemetatacme on Instagram or listen to We Met At Acme wherever you listen to podcasts. Hope to see you all in Palm Beach soon!
