Going to fabulous dinner parties—or throwing them—requires with a level of sophistication, style, and panache. Here are some tips and tricks to ensure you bring top-notch everything to your next event!
BY: Eric Viner
GUEST ETIQUETTE
RSVP Promptly
Respond to the invitation as soon as possible, and let the host know if you have any dietary restrictions.
Offer Help
Ask the host if there’s anything you can bring or do to help.
Punctuality
Arrive on time or notify the host if you’ll be late.
Bring a Gift
Consider offering a token of appreciation. It could be cocktail napkins from the Monogram Shop in East Hampton, flowers from Ovando in Southampton, cookies from Tates, or a pie from Amber Waves.
Post-Party
Send a personalized thank-you note via snail mail on custom stationery from Hildreths in Southampton the next day.
IF YOU’RE HOSTING
Theme and Style
Decide on a theme or style for your party. The Hamptons is known for its chic and relaxed elegance, so consider themes like a summer soirée, garden party, or classic white party.
Guest List
Curate a guest list that ensures a lively, stylish, and enjoyable mix of people.
Catering
Delicious food and presentation are a must. Ensure that the menu is curated based on your guests and their dietary restrictions. Here are some of the best caterers Out East: East End Clambake, Silver Spoon Specialties, Food and Co, Insatiable EATS, and Mr.Softee.
Venue
Choose a location that highlights the beauty of the Hamptons, whether it’s a beachfront property, a garden, or a stylish home.
Décor
Use tasteful decorations that enhance the natural beauty of your venue. Consider elegant table settings, fresh flowers, string lights, and candles for ambiance.
Entertainment
Hire a DJ or live band to set the mood. Some of the best entertainers out here are East End Entertainment, Hamptons DJ, and DJ Futuro Entertainment.
Activities
Plan some fun activities for your guests, such as lawn games, a photo booth, or a bonfire on the beach. Even though you are the host, it doesn’t mean you can’t have a great time, too!
